Once more, our Board Chair Peter Kafka has words of wisdom in the face of progressing disease:

Many years ago, people used to bequeath their bodies after they died for medical research.  So little was known about the mysterious way the human form worked and all the intricacies of the many parts.  In the world of prostate cancer, it appears that more significant knowledge and understanding comes from the experience of those of us living with and managing this disease.  Why wait until I am dead when I can bequeath each day of my life to the expansion of knowledge and understanding of this crazy disease that affects each man a bit differently.

The other day I was asking myself, “why am I moderating the AnCan Low & Intermediate Prostate Cancer group?”  A fair question since from the onset 6 years ago my disease was anything but low or intermediate grade prostate cancer.  Perhaps it is because of the plethora of treatment modalities I have utilized in these past six years.

I can speak from experience about blind biopsies, pathology reports, multi-parametric MRIs, CT, bone and PET scans,  Robotic prostatectomy, urinary retention, Indwelling and self-catheterization, incontinence, ADT, including three kinds of second line anti androgens, intermittent ADT, IMRT and Proton Beam radiation, two kinds of PSMA scans, germline genetic testing, somatic genome testing and the vital importance of record keeping. I think I have left out a few.

So, when my disease progressed recently as evidenced through a PSMA scan and biopsy and my medical oncologist brought up the notion of chemo therapy I did not greet the news with an attitude of “ABC” (Anything But Chemo) but rather “Bring It On”.

By the time I am done with this disease, or it gets done with me, I will have quite a wealth of experience to share.  My medical oncologist called me “an outlier” the other day for a variety of reasons.  As a child of the 60’s I thought I was all done experimenting with drugs.  Little did I know! (Yes, you can laugh here – I am).  I think that the opportunity AnCan provides for us to share our stories and really hear each other and fully understand the concerns and issues has really helped me navigate this road these past six years.