AnCan and The Marsh (well renown, long-established theater company with a large following in the Bay Area and venues in San Francisco and Oakland) collaborateevery 4th Wednesday of the month for Solo Arts Heal!
On July 28th, we had the pleasure of having Michael Bihovsky!
Michael shared his award-winning film and musical theater works, ranging from Les Mis parodies to full musicals about neuroplasticity to his brand new music video, Paperweight, which documents the COVID-19 pandemic experience through the lens of disability. Through this wide range of creations, Michael demonstrated how he has created music and art whose poignancy (and comedy) shines through not merely despite his struggles with the connective tissue disorder Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, but because of those struggles.
Watch this incredible performance here:
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This post is dedicated in loving memory of Lung Cancer Advocate Don Stranathan. May his memory always be a blessing to us all.
Friend of AnCan, and advocate Peggy Denis from The Insightful Breath had some great reflections on milestones as she hit a big cancerversary number, 5 years!
Peggy beautifully puts into words the ebbs and flows of what we experience during our years of having cancer, or a chronic illness:
Five years of saying hello, we are on this path together and goodby, it is an honor to know you – see you on the other side. Five years of devastatingly painful losses and still, five years of encouraging gains. During this five years we’ve maneuvered through a pandemic. Didn’t see that one coming but didn’t see cancer coming either so there’s that. Most importantly, five years of experiencing profound love and five years of living in the moment.
Hi-Risk/Recurrent/Advanced PCa Video Support – Men & Caregivers Recording, July 5, 2021
Apologies for starting the recording late this week – but we made up for it by going almost 1 hour overtime! That’s what happens when the Calendar causes us to miss a week.
Editor’s Choice: Maybe we can control hot flashes after all …… and dexmethasone may ease chemo lows (rd)
Topics Discussed – order may be a little off this week …. sorry!
Uro fails to follow up w. denovo Mx Dx; neighbor provides care & guidance where not really wanted; managing advanced PCa since 2009 with IHT; the Embr gizmo brings succes; starting Ac225+pembro+enz trial; Pylarify now available; genetic testing; orchiectomy v LHRH; Orgovyx; Stability continues for man who started with 3000 PSA; 20th chemo coming up!; Dex may ease chemo low; Medical MJ for appetite and more; huge fatigue – but maybe overdoing it?; negotiating a drug holiday; PSA low end for a Pylalrify result; darolutamide could work; switching docs at The James; chemo brings results with just 6 sessions
Chat Log
John Ivory (to Everyone): 5:29 PM: My father & uncle had prostate cancer; my mother had breast cancer, but my germline was negative
John Ivory (to Everyone): 5:33 PM: abiraterone (sometimes known by brand name Zytiga
Dennis Correia (to Everyone): 5:39 PM: Dr. Parminder Singh at Mayo Hospital in Phoenix.
scott (to Everyone): 6:20 PM: Sorry for the repeat, how do you spell the specific oncologist from earlier?
Ancan – rick (to Everyone): 6:24 PM: Genitourinary medical oncologist
David Muslin (to Everyone): 6:24 PM: I give pat alot of credit for helping however, you can’t help someone who does not want to help themselves.
George (to Everyone): 6:34 PM: I signed up but was rejected because I don’t have hot flashes (yet).
John Ivory (to Everyone): 6:39 PM: For those on abiraterone, a reminder that the instructions say no grapefruit
Jeff Marchi (to Everyone): 6:40 PM: same with viagra!
John Ivory (to Everyone): 6:46 PM: SO good to hear, Ken!
David Muslin (to Everyone): 6:47 PM: You are an inspiration Ken
Peter Kafka (to Everyone): 6:48 PM: Ken, you are amazing! Good going
Bruce Bocian (to Everyone): 6:52 PM: Anyone try the Prolaris genetic test kit?
Len Sierra (to Everyone): 6:54 PM: Prolaris is useless for guys who are high risk/recurrent/advanced, i.e., this group.
Bruce Bocian (to Everyone): 6:54 PM: Ok thanks, Im thinking for my sons
Jimmy Greenfield (to Everyone): 6:54 PM: When I was taking dexamethasone I was cleaning the house constantly. My wife was sad when I was done -wanted me to get a scrip just for that
George (to Everyone): 6:55 PM: Woodburn Nuclear Medicine in Annandale Virginia for Pylarify PSMA-PET scan.
Jefferson (to Everyone): 6:55 PM: wwhere is fairfax ?
George (to Everyone): 6:56 PM: Fairfax 10 mi from Washington DC
Joel Blanchette (to Everyone): 6:57 PM: PSMA scan at Woodburn Nuclear Medicine & Metro Region PET Center
Pat Martin (to Everyone): 7:00 PM: Some tumors can make the T they need. As was explained by my MO
John Ivory (to Everyone): 7:12 PM: My question isn’t prostate related (is for My Mom), so I’ll just post it here. I’ll also go to caregivers tomorrow. Does anyone have any experience using medical marijuana as an appetite stimulant? Mom is down to 78 pounds from 100+ Looking for any way to stimulate her appetite
Jefferson (to Everyone): 7:16 PM: thank you ALL my oncologist has order blood genetic testing and was approved full help with the cost. I BELIEVE you have given me something to think about.
Len Sierra (to Everyone): 7:16 PM: The only cannabis drug approved by FDA for appetite stimulation is called Marinol (dronabinol). Marinol: https://www.accessdata.fda.gov/drugsatfda_docs/label/2005/018651s021lbl.pdf
John Ivory (to Everyone): 7:17 PM: Thanks Len–will look into that too
Pat Martin (to Everyone): 7:23 PM: Comprehensive Metabolic Panel
Pat Martin (to Everyone): 7:31 PM: see all next Tues.
Len Sierra (to Organizer(s) Only): 7:32 PM: Gotta drop off, guys. Have a good week.
Bruce Bocian (to Everyone): 7:39 PM: Good night!
John Ivory (to Everyone): 7:49 PM: I’m on abiraterone w/o mets
Jeff Marchi (to Everyone): 7:51 PM: problem getting insurance to pay without metastasis
Herb Geller (to Organizer(s) Only): 7:53 PM: I gotta go soon. Bedtime!
Ancan – rick (to Everyone): 7:59 PM: Amir Mortazavi
Herb Geller (to Everyone): 7:59 PM: Gotta go. See you all Tuesday.
John Ivory (to Everyone): 8:00 PM: @Jeff wow, I got lucky then–maybe bc I failed surgery & radiation… Both ACA plan & now Medicaid have paid (I’m too young for Medicare)
George (to Everyone): 8:01 PM: https://cancer.osu.edu/find-a-doctor/search-physician-directory/amir-mortazavi
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. – Walter Winchell
I really love this quote. Having cancer, serious, chronic, or rare illness is so isolating. Even if you have ample support from family and friends, nobody knows your situation like a peer does. It’s beyond comforting to join my thyroid cancer virtual support group and instead of explaining a symptom / side effect, I can just share what is going on, with reassuring nods, and validating comments.
At AnCan, support is personal. Our support group moderators are incredible people who sign up to help fellow peers just like them. They are here to celebrate the good days, mourn the bad days, and even fellowship during the blah days in-between. It’s not surprising that our people even gain deep, meaningful friendships.
Rick and I received this breathtaking photograph of our MS support group moderators Dan and Jennifer Digmann and Kim Stroeh meeting up together in Iowa. This makes our hearts so happy, and is really what AnCan is all about. Never being alone, in whatever you are facing. Our MS group is such a great example of community.
Thanks, Dan, Jennifer, and Kim for the smile today.
Here’s to friendships, and support wherever you are!
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