by Rick Davis | Feb 4, 2020 | Blood Cancers, Advocacy, Cancer Caregivers, Cancer Resources, Men 'Speaking Freely', Men's Breast Cancer, Women's Breast Cancer
Kudos – or as Ali G would say, “RESPECT” – to our newest Moderator (well, almost!), Richard Farmer. Richard and Kenny Capps, of Throwing Bones for a Cure, are planning to launch an AnCan blood cancer virtual group within the next few weeks.
In the meantime, Richard just published Reflections On The Journey of Cancer and Marriage in Cure’s online magazine. You can read it here. Nothing comes easy …..
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by Rick Davis | Sep 26, 2019 | Cancer Resources, Brain Tumors, Cancer Caregivers, Health Resources, Men 'Speaking Freely', Men's Breast Cancer, Multiple Sclerosis, Prostate Cancer, Women's Breast Cancer
Yet again, our Moderator Peter Kafka offers wise words from his group meting reminder that many of you will find true! Thank you Peter …..
All of us in the AnCan community are volunteers. At this juncture none of us are paid to moderate our calls or assist others in navigation or advocacy with their cancer journey. This might change at some point as finances permit and circumstances evolve, but for now we remain no less passionate or committed to our calling. There are of course benefits to the work we do, and for me one of the great benefits I have come to know is new friendships. The men and women I have come to know through this work in these past five years have made a great impact on my life.
Friendship is an interesting human cultural phenomenon. It is often noted that women tend to form closer and longer lasting friendships than men. Men can become “lone wolves” in society, particularly as we age and our boyhood friendships fall away. It takes work and commitment to initiate and maintain friendships as we grow older and our life purposes change and evolve.
The notion that new and significant friendships can form in the autumnal days of our lives is a foreign concept to most men. The idea that there are men who are committed to being of help to perfect strangers who are trying to find their way through the weeds of prostate cancer decisions can no doubt seem suspicious. “What’s the catch?” Simply put, there is no catch! For some unknown reason this disease seems to have propelled quite a few of us into a place where we just want to help others as best we can.
I always look forward to these on-line/telephone AnCan meetings. Even though most of us are separated by many miles and may never meet each other in person, strong bonds are sometimes formed and significant friendships result. Maybe I should end this with a string of clichés; We are not ships passing in the night – but rather all in the same boat and pulling for each other.
We at AnCan through our online/telephone weekly support meetings and advocacy work hard as peers to provide whatever support and backup as we can in your journey with prostate cancer. But we don’t claim to have all the answers. We encourage you to share your experiences. We learn from each other. Keep connected, information is power! We are always there for you.
by Rick Davis | Aug 12, 2019 | Cancer Resources, Exercise, Prostate Cancer
Some of you may recall Joe Boardman participating in our advanced prostate cancer group from the middle of last year. Joe’s unbelievable mountaineering feats with his wife and son are described below ….. any of us would be shouting these achievements from the mountaintop, but to do this on ADT – wow! Joe did, and continues to, shout his conquests from the top of the mountains ….
Climbing the world’s tallest peaks despite deadly prostate cancer diagnosis
by Len Sierra | Jun 25, 2019 | Recent News, Cancer Resources
I just read this New York Times obituary on the life of Gabriele Anderson Grunewald, who passed away at age 32 after battling several cancers for the past 10 years. She was an elite runner who never stopped training to qualify for the Olympics, even while undergoing multiple surgeries and chemotherapy regimens. While reading her story, I realized that she was the perfect embodiment of the spirit that Stuart Scott wrote about as he approached the end of his long struggle with cancer: “When you die, it does not mean that you lose to cancer. “You beat cancer by how you live, why you live, and in the manner in which you live.” Gabriele beat cancer. I hope her story inspires you to live more fully and to beat cancer, either literally or metaphorically.
http://tiny.cc/Gabriele_Grunewald