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Less than 50% of Patients trust their Providers. Now that’s a handpicked statistic from a survey conducted during Covid and published in JAMA Network in 2024. Healthcare professionals amongst our readers may have grounds to push back. That said, AnCan’s frequent experience from virtual conversations in our daily groups corroborates that anecdotally perhaps half our participants doubt the medical advice received. Our own 2024 survey backs that up. From our GU ASCO 2026 abstract4:
Seventy percent brought information from AnCan to their providers, 49% added new providers, and 40% changed their lead provider. Over half (54%) reported AnCan influenced their treatment path.
That doesn’t bode well for a trusting Patient-Provider relationship!
“Medicine is characterized by an inherent asymmetry of information and power between physicians and patients.” And goes on to say: “Demonstrating trustworthiness and restoring trust… requires reconsidering the balance of power between patients and health care professionals.”
This brings to mind a cartoon AnCan has employed in presentations:
Both JAMA pieces agree that our system is broken. They recite a fact that AnCan has previously noted… on average Providers interrupt Patients after a median of 11 seconds. In front of Providers, Patients can’t even begin to collect our thoughts, never mind express them.
The article troops out a whole bunch of remedies. Starting with teaching HCPs how to listen, it moves to improving health systems so you actually see your doc – not a surrogate practitioner, encouraging longer patient visits – so Providers have time to listen, and address mis- and disinformation. On a more grandiose scale, the article points out that differences in wealth, insurance status and education also influence Patient-Provider trust levels.
The closest either article comes to balancing the scales between Patient and Provider is to say:
Empowering patients through patient education and skill building, increased transparency in care, and shared clinical decision-making would also increase the collaboration in physician-patient relationships. Mutual partnerships between patients and their physicians may foster more stable patient trust instead of requiring patients to take a more tenuous leap of faith.
Noble words, but who is to take on this Sisyphean task?
AnCan likes to think we lead the way. Name one other organization whose mission is to make you your own best advocate. Already this week we fielded one call from a longtime legal Volunteer whose trust in an inestimable Medical Institution was violated because the Provider they spoke to committed the inexcusable and cardinal sin of simply failing to read the file. Or another Participant, a Medical Provider himself, who needed advice because an Institution was knowingly yet improperly billing him.
Being your own best advocate may not fully restore trust in our health system, but it goes a long way to leveling the playing field. It certainly improves patients’ self-esteem and in doing so, makes us feel immeasurably better.
rick davis rd@ancan.org
References
Perlis RH, Ognyanova K, Uslu A, et al. Trust in physicians and hospitals during the COVID-19 pandemic in a 50-state survey of US adults. JAMA Netw Open. 2024;7(7):e2424984. doi:10.1001/jamanetworkopen.2024.24984
Even little me speaks to a lot of people, some of whom have Prostate Cancer. And advanced Prostate Cancer and many of them are not acting as their own best advocate. It’s very important that people learn to take control and own and deal with their disease.
Maybe it’s a little long winded and boring, but it took me a year or 2, into my stage, 4, Prostate Cancer. Before I really took control and had one of those aggressive and idiot doctors who told me” i am a ph d in oncology, and you are a beginning student, ” and he tried to dictate to me everything, including his team of radiological, oncology, and his drugs and his procedures, and I watched a number of his patients who I know personally, because I worked with them die without doing all the things they could. Anyway, after a year two I was seeing consulting with good doctors and dana farber and at sloan, and I switched from advisors to sloan and very happy with my oncologist now…. It is very important for people to come to visit. Taking ownership and managing as their own number one, advocate. Okay, I’ll stop boring you because my doorbell is ringing. Thank you bye!”
(Here is my take on this article Therapeutic Use of Cannabis and Cannabinoids A Review JAMA Network, 11/26/25. On a personal side, I use CBD to help me sleep, and with a little (5%) addition of THC, it is a great anxiety calmer – Sally Torgeson, AnCan Blood Cancer Moderator & Multiple Myeloma Coach)
Unapproved Cannabis
The FDA has NOT approved the cannabis plant (botanical marijuana) for any medical use or indication.
Because it is classified as a Schedule I controlled substance under federal law, the FDA has not found it to be safe or effective for the treatment of any disease or condition [1.1, 1.7].
It is currently illegal to market CBD by adding it to food or labeling it as a dietary supplement in interstate commerce [2.1, 2.5].
FDA-Approved Cannabinoid Drugs
The FDA has approved a small number of prescription drugs containing either a purified cannabis-derived compound or synthetic cannabinoids:
Epidiolex (Cannabidiol or CBD): The only FDA-approved drug that contains a purified substance derived directly from the cannabis plant. It is approved to treat seizures associated with Lennox-Gastaut syndrome, Dravet syndrome, and Tuberous Sclerosis Complex in patients one year of age and older [1.8, 2.1].
Marinol and Syndros (Dronabinol): Contain synthetic Δ9-tetrahydrocannabinol (THC). Approved for:
Nausea and vomiting associated with cancer chemotherapy in patients who have not responded to conventional antiemetic treatments [2.2, 2.3].
Anorexia associated with weight loss in patients with HIV/AIDS [2.3].
Cesamet (Nabilone): Contains a synthetic substance that is chemically similar to THC. Approved for chemotherapy-induced nausea and vomiting [1.1, 2.3].
Regulatory Context
The FDA maintains its authority to regulate products containing cannabis or cannabis-derived compounds, even those derived from hemp (cannabis with less than 0.3% THC), under the Federal Food, Drug, and Cosmetic (FD&C) Act [1.4].
The FDA supports the development of new drugs through proper clinical trials to ensure they meet standards for safety and effectiveness [1.1, 2.4].
FDA-Approved Cannabinoid Drugs and Their Conditions
* Nausea and vomiting caused by cancer chemotherapy (when other antiemetics have failed) * Anorexia (loss of appetite) associated with weight loss in patients with HIV/AIDS
Cesamet (Nabilone)
Synthetic cannabinoid (similar to THC)
* Nausea and vomiting caused by cancer chemotherapy (when other antiemetics have failed)
Key Takeaway
Epidiolex is the only drug approved that contains a substance derived directly from the Cannabis plant (CBD). It represents the strongest evidence for cannabinoid efficacy in reducing seizure frequency in certain rare forms of epilepsy [1.1, 1.2].
The synthetic THC compounds (Dronabinol and Nabilone) are used primarily as a last resort for severe nausea/vomiting related to chemotherapy and for appetite stimulation in AIDS patients [1.2, 2.8].
The FDA has not approved the use of the whole cannabis plant for any medical condition, stressing the importance of standardized, tested pharmaceuticals for patient safety and proven effectiveness [1.7].1
Off-Label Use vs. Unapproved Use
1. Off-Label Use (Legal and Regulated)
This applies only to drugs that the FDA has already approved.
What it is: Using an FDA-approved drug (like Epidiolex, Marinol, or Cesamet) for a condition, dose, or patient population that is not specifically listed on the drug’s official label.
Legality: It is legal for a licensed physician to prescribe an approved drug for an off-label use if they believe it is medically appropriate for their patient.
FDA Position: The FDA does not regulate the practice of medicine; however, the manufacturer cannot market or promote the drug for the off-label use. The safety and efficacy for the off-label use have not been verified by the FDA’s rigorous testing process.
Example: A doctor prescribing Marinol (Dronabinol), which is approved for nausea from chemotherapy, to a patient for chronic pain. The drug is approved, but the condition (chronic pain) is not on the label.
2. Unapproved Use (Non-FDA Approved Products)
This applies to the cannabis plant itself and most CBD/cannabinoid products on the market.
What it is: Using the whole cannabis plant (botanical marijuana) or non-FDA-approved cannabis-derived products (like most CBD oils, edibles, or topicals) for any medical purpose.
Legality:
Federal: The whole plant is a Schedule I controlled substance and is not federally approved for any medical use.
State: Use may be legal under state medical or recreational cannabis laws, but this does not change its status as an unapproved drug under federal FDA law.
FDA Position: The FDA considers these products unapproved drugs and/or illegally marketed products (especially when CBD is added to food or marketed as a dietary supplement), as they have not been tested for safety, effectiveness, or quality assurance.
Example: A patient using a CBD tincture (which is not Epidiolex) to treat anxiety, or using THC flower to help with multiple sclerosis symptoms.
To correspond with Sally, please send an email to info@ancan.org, and we’ll be sure to send along.
Taking on the role of a care partner can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Many experienced care partners will tell you that with a little guidance, it can also be a deeply fulfilling experience. To help you on your journey, we’ve compiled some helpful resources available online.
1.Leaning Into Grief: An Interview With Claire Bidwell Smith
Claire Bidwell Smith is a therapist, grief expert, and author. Click here for her interview about leaning into grief.
2. Cancer Today: Addressing Anger
Anger and Irritability are normal responses to a cancer diagnosis, and this article offers guidance for care partners of cancer patients.
3. NCCN Guidelines for Patients: Palliative Care
The National Comprehensive Cancer Network released an easy to read, patient-centric Palliative Care guidelines that you can view and download. Click here.
4. “Caregiver Life Hacks”
There’s no one-size-fits-all way to care for someone because every care partner and situation is different. What helps one person might not work for another, but many care partners deal with similar challenges. Click here for some simple “life hacks” that might make your day a little easier.
5. “Caregivers Need Care Too”
“However, primary care partners are also thrust into an unfamiliar world of medical treatments, terminology, and appointments. This is why mutual support between the patient and the primary care partner is important—it is a partnership through thick and thin because both the patient and primary care partner need to learn about the complexities of the disease and treatments needed, as well as make important decisions together.” Click here for the full article.
6. Triage Health Caregiver Resources
Click here for a full list of resources about legal and practical matters like taking time off from work, managing family finances and medical bills, replacing lost wages, estate planning, and other resources.
7. Cancer Straight Talk Podcast: Advice and Support for Cancer Caregivers
The podcast Cancer Straight Talk features host Dr. Diane Reidy-Lagunes speaking with Dr. Allison Applebaum, the founder of the Caregivers Clinic at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center (MSK). This episode covers navigating the healthcare system and managing the emotions of caregiving.
8. Patient Power: Power of Care Partners: Who Has your Back?
This article is about the crucial role of care partners for people with chronic illness. It distinguishes a “care partner” as a full member of the care team, not just a caregiver. The article also provides advice on practical matters, like having a designated care partner with access to medical records, and emphasizes the importance of care partners looking after their own well-being.
Tomorrow is the 10th Anniversary of my dear friend, Jerry Carniglia’s passing, God Rest His Soul.
I loved this man. I found him in 2011, when my buddy Eric Schmier GRHS/z”l asked me to navigate him. That’s the same Schmier after whom we named one of our Virtual Room when his family made a very generous donation early in AnCan’s history. Jerry had been diagnosed with denovo metastatic prostate cancer and was being treated inadequately at Kaiser Permanente in Oakland, CA.
Eric was a developer in Emeryville, Caifornia, and Jerry was the ‘unofficial’ Mayor. Everybody knew him – he lived in a disused 6,000 s.f. factory turned into his living space and studio. Jerry was a general contractor, artisan woodworker with an enormous, fully equipped workshop, an artist of very large (& small) canvasses, and not least an actor. Jerry’s closest buddy from drama school at UC Berkeley school was Tony award winner, Tony Taccone, Artisitic Director at Berkeley Rep. You may be familiar with Tony’s son and Jerry’s Godson, Jorma Taccone of Lonely Island and Saturday Night Live fame (Dick in the Box).
Jerry was diagnosed with denovo metastatic prostate cancer in 2011, and we transferred his care from KP to UCSF as soon as we could under the amazing, watchful eye of Dr. Larry Fong. Larry is the Principle Investigator for Provenge and a highly respected GU medical oncologist. Jer’s prognosis was not great and we got him around 4 years.
This picture was taken on Halloween 2012 on the occasion of Jerry receiving his 3rd Provenge infusion!
Amongst other pre-‘AnCan’ directed navigation, Jerry was the first Veteran I supported. When I discovered he’d served on a Blue Water craft in the Mekong Delta. we got him over $4 Grand a month! And it was through Jerry that AnCan found our Care Partner Lead Susan Lahaie, and her late husband, Ron Silverio.
Jerry decided he wanted to document his last years. He bought a fancy camera, the softtware program First Cut that he taught himself, and started making videos. It did not hurt that he had many connections to assist him with video, audio, editing and production. In Jerry’s dear memory, I want to bring several videos to your attention that are now lodged on You Tube. You’ll find me reluctanty appearing in two of them!
Jerry Carniglia, Painter is a short video displaying his remarkable technique. I suspect, although I’m not certain, this canvas may be one of the 3 Carnigloa paintings I have hanging in my casita. Much of his work was donated to UCSF and to Larry Fong personally. He is collectable and had several shows.
Jerry Cut 3 – is an edited collage of several clips Jerry made in his own memory. He intended them to be watched as you are doing today This is Jer!!
Painting A Quiet Radical, a 5 min short, is scripted and acted by Jerry and friends who also lived with advanced prostate cancer. Other than myself, the other’s are no longer with us. His Tony award winning director friend, Tony Taccone refused to have any part of this, then showed up at the read-through and directed the whole 9-yards!
Signs is the re-enactment of a true event when Jerry went for an evening stroll along the railroad tracks close to his factory, He tripped, fell, knocked himself out and almost got run over by a train. I tracked him down several days later in the hospital. A few months later Jerry called me up one Monday morning in the Fall and told me to come by that afternoon. We were filming! I asked what – and where’s the script. He said – “Just show up wearing shorts and sandals. You don’t need a script!” Gotta love this man.
This post is a tribute to Jerry Lee Carniglia. He died on June 7, 2015 – may his memory always be a blessing. It will to me.
“Someone I once loved gave me a box of darkness” –Mary Oliver
I was at a 12-Step-oriented workshop about grief recently, and it made me think about Men Speaking Freely (MSF). We are vaguely aware of grief in all MSF groups, it hangs over us, and we have at times focused on some specific griefs/losses, such as vitality, or a longer life. It is commonly thought that not thinking about a loss, not talking about it is the manly thing to do. Here in MSF we get relief by sharing our common losses with each other.
The presenter of that workshop, Marcia C., had some ways to specifically talk about grief that were new to me. She gave me permission to use some of her material here. She pointed out some types of losses that I hadn’t realized. For example, the loss of who I would have been if cancer didn’t happen, the grief of estrangement, loss of work, of status, of friendship; the loss of never having had something, that of aging, of trust, or of giving up something.
She said there is “unacknowledged grief” when such losses are never fully brought to consciousness. When I looked at her long list of examples I saw many that I have. We ought to watch for unacknowledged grief.
She described “non-finite” grief, which has no end-point other than death. Ours could be in that category, since as time goes by our loss increases instead of lessens.
Marcia said, ‘’Sharing your grief is a way to receive validation and compassionate witnessing. It can help you begin a path to healing and/or finding a way to live with grief.
Consider the questions below:
1. Are there griefs you haven’t realized you have or have been afraid to face?
2. Are there griefs about which you’d like to share?
3. Do you have grief practices that might be helpful to others?
4. Make a list of griefs you’ve experienced.
5. Choose a tool from the list that might help you process your grief.”
That list of “tools” was long; it included things like: write a letter or poem describing our loss…Create a ritual of letting go…Share with others who have had similar losses…Visit a place that is meaningful…Make or buy a talisman that helps you feel protected…Dance, run, yell to get your feelings out of your body…Plant something in remembrance or as a new beginning…Start a new tradition…Do an intentional funeral… These are ways to bring acknowledged, unacknowledged, and non-finite grief out for a conscious conversation. Moving from covert to overt, with the goal of making a relationship with the loss, and getting rid of the unconscious silent prolonged scream that I, for example, think I harbor.
We think of grief as emotional, but in “Dealing With the Physical Impact of Intense Grief” by Batya Swift Yasgur, the author describes the variety of physical reactions to grief. Ranging from elevated blood pressure to takotsubo cardiomyopathy — sometimes called “broken heart syndrome” — which is a “stress response that balloons the heart.” We often wonder about the reaction on our immune system, and its implications to our overall survival. In fact, probably nearly all our systems react to grief in some way.
There is a fairly new grief-related diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual and the International Classification of Diseases, describing a “persistent and pervasive grief response” that goes on longer than a year., and is now called Prolonged Grief Disorder. In order to be diagnosed with Prolonged Grief Disorder, a person must experience at least three of eight additional symptoms that include “disbelief, intense emotional pain, feeling of identity confusion, avoidance of reminders of the loss, feelings of numbness, intense loneliness, meaninglessness, or difficulty engaging in ongoing life” according to Columbia University’s Center for Prolonged Grief. For an adult to meet the criteria for a PGD diagnosis, the death of a loved one must have occurred at least one year ago, and the symptoms must be present most days since the loss and nearly every day for at least the last month.
Our situation is different from losing a loved one (although it includes that) and waiting for the grief to go away. Instead of a major loss which goes farther and farther into the past, our major loss is in the future. We have sort of a reverse Prolonged Grief Disorder. For instance, I expect my losses to get worse and worse until death.
Has eating become a challenge due to fatigue or a lack of interest in food? Have you noticed a significant change in your or your loved one’s appearance since starting treatment or diagnosis?
It’s a common misconception that weight loss during cancer treatment is solely due to treatment side effects. While this can certainly be a factor, a more serious condition known as cachexia (kuh·kek·see·uh) can significantly impact a patient’s health.
What is Cachexia and Who is at Risk?
Cachexia, often referred to as cancer cachexia or wasting syndrome, is a complex condition characterized by severe weight loss, muscle wasting, and loss of appetite. It’s not a direct side effect of cancer treatment but rather a consequence of the cancer itself. While it’s commonly associated with cancer, it’s important to note that cachexia can affect individuals with various chronic illnesses, including: Multiple Sclerosis, Sarcoidosis, heart failure, chronic kidney disease, COPD, and more. Certain types of cancer are more likely to lead to cachexia than others. These include: Pancreatic, Lung, Head and Neck, Colorectal, Ovarian, and Liver.
Signs and Symptoms of Cachexia: What Should You Look For?
Recognizing the signs of cachexia is crucial for early intervention and effective management. Here are some key symptoms to watch for:
Unexplained weight loss: A significant and unintentional decrease in weight.
Muscle loss: A noticeable loss of muscle mass, often leading to weakness and fatigue.
Decreased appetite: A reduced desire to eat, even when hungry.
Fatigue: Persistent tiredness and a lack of energy.
Metabolic changes: Alterations in metabolism, including changes in appetite, weight, and energy levels.
Changes in Routine: Unable to do the activities you once could.
If you or a loved one is experiencing these symptoms, it’s important to let your care team know your concerns as soon as possible.
Managing Cachexia
While there’s no one-size-fits-all solution, a multidisciplinary approach can help manage the condition. This may involve:
Dietary interventions: A registered dietitian can provide personalized meal plans to maximize nutrient intake.
Medical treatments: In some cases, medications may be prescribed to stimulate appetite or reduce inflammation.
Supportive care: This includes strategies to manage pain, fatigue, and other symptoms.
Psychological support: Counseling can help address emotional challenges associated with cachexia.
This may mean adding more people to your careteam to support you, such as a dietician (as shown above), physical or occupational therapist, endocrinologist, or palliative care (editors note: we hope you already have a palliative care doctor, AnCan loves them and they can offer you so much support during your treatment!)
Coping with the Emotional Impact
Cachexia can take a significant toll on both physical and emotional well-being for the patient, care-partner, and their families. It’s important to seek support to manage the emotional side effects of the condition. Consider:
Counseling: Individual, couples, or family therapy can provide guidance and coping strategies.
You can also ask your social worker (or for a social worker if you do not have one) for additional resources.
Want to Learn More?
We highly recommend this webpage and fact sheet from our friends at Cancer Support Community / Gilda’s Club. While it is cancer centric, all of the information will be of helpful no matter what your diagnosis is.
By understanding the complexities of cachexia and seeking appropriate support, individuals can significantly improve their quality of life. Effective management of cachexia can help alleviate debilitating symptoms, enhance overall well-being, and improve the ability to participate in daily activities.
Special thanks to CSC for their assistance and incredible resources with this blog post.
Off-Label Use vs. Unapproved Use
I loved this man. I found him in 2011, when my buddy Eric Schmier GRHS/z”l asked me to navigate him. That’s the same Schmier after whom we named one of our Virtual Room when his family made a very generous donation early in AnCan’s history. Jerry had been diagnosed with denovo metastatic prostate cancer and was being treated inadequately at Kaiser Permanente in Oakland, CA.
Jerry was diagnosed with denovo metastatic prostate cancer in 2011, and we transferred his care from KP to UCSF as soon as we could under the amazing, watchful eye of Dr. Larry Fong. Larry is the Principle Investigator for Provenge and a highly respected GU medical oncologist. Jer’s prognosis was not great and we got him around 4 years.
